Monday, July 4, 2011

Reaching Out

There is someone that I really want to reach out to and just try to help with the best of my ability. They are going through a really tough time right now, and they have been for a few months, however, they completely shut me out of their life for a very stupid reason. Something that they jumped to conclusions about and thought that I was attacking something that I was not. Some guy in the Army put a really immature comment on my facebook about the one thing they were the most upset about, not being able to have sex, and I reacted telling him that he should really be thankful that he's still alive. I meant this in this way: there are so many men and women losing their lives overseas and all this guy can think about is sex? It really annoyed me. Well, the person I am wanting to help took it the wrong way, told me I should be thankful that I'm still alive and said that I should be ashamed of myself for disrespecting him and anyone in the military. I was clearly, in NO WAY whatsoever, doing this. That's crazy. I have the upmost respect for everyone in the service, I was just perturbed by this guys selfishness, especially since he was single and just wanted a good time.

Well, I still really care for this person's feelings and it really kills me to see that she is hurting so badly. We went to school together, were really good friends during Senior year, but for some reason, something just went wrong. Many of you probably follow this person on here, and would understand what I'm trying to say and why I want to reach out to her so badly, but I honestly feel like my efforts would be shoved to the side and not appreciated at all. I've tried before, and that happened.


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